5. Lighten up and have fun
Enjoy the process of dating and getting to know new people. Remember, you won’t necessarily find those you’re most compatible with in your local bar or nightclub. Your friends and colleagues can be a great resource to find like-minded people.
But if you’re looking to find quality people on your own, my advice is to take a class—specifically a cooking class or a dance class. Interactive classes provide a great environment for singles. Here’s why:
- Everyone is there to learn something new … which means they’re bettering themselves, and that’s the type of person you want to attract.
- Everyone starts even. No one knows more than anyone else there, so unless someone is secretly a ringer … there’s no unfair advantage, no one puts anyone down, and everyone is in a positive place.
- You experience raw relationship dynamics. In active classes, people are often paired up. You can see how people who catch your eye handle mistakes, what their ego and confidence level are, how they deal with learning new things, how they handle insecurity, and whether they allow you space to do your own thing.
Above all, have fun. Life and love have their serious moments, but both are supposed to add happiness to your experience. If they aren’t, you’re headed down the wrong path.
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