7. Going down on her for too long or not long enough
There is for sure a happy medium here, although clearly, that will be different for everyone. Going down on someone for a minute means you’re lazy, not really interested, and just trying to get an ‘A’ for effort.
This is always transparent and never appreciated. It begs the question: Why bother? On the flip side, spending an hour down there is simply an overkill.
Learn to know when and where to stop; the trick is knowing when she is ready and wanting you to move from giving her a head to the real penetration.
Don’t torture her because it’s ‘what you like doing.’ Listen to us (refer to Number #3).
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