5. Is there anything new you have wanted to try, but weren’t sure if you were allowed to want it?
For countless unfortunate reasons, there’s so much shame tied to our relationship to our sexuality. Well meaning parents, peers, movies, media, and misguided early sexual educators give us a lot of faulty beliefs around what is considered “normal” in what we’re allowed to want when it comes to sex. So this is the shame melting round of the exercise.
What would you like to try, if you weren’t afraid to ask? What do you need the permission to ask for? What sexual acts do you feel like you don’t deserve?
If you’ve been following me for a while then you’ve likely heard of “spoiling sessions”. Spoiling sessions are a perfect example of an exercise in sexual receptivity that brings up a lot of anxiety for certain people. It’s not always easy to explicitly ask for what we want. But it is uber-valuable and super fun once we get to the place of being comfortable with it.
So what, in your sex life, would you ask for if you knew that your partner could potentially be open to it?
Want Better Sex? Just Ask
Communication is vitally important in any relationship. Sex is just as vital (however you define sex for yourself).
By intentionally setting aside time to talk with your significant other about the status of your sex life, you could save yourself years of pain, and add that much more joyous sexual play into your daily life. So the question isn’t “Will asking these questions be worth the potential awkwardness?”, but rather, “How can I afford not to have this conversation with my partner?”
Your new and improved sex life starts today.
by Jordan Grey
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