6. Ladies, tease it out.
Start far away from him, and time your approach with the song so the last few moves are right on his lap. As you gain confidence you can even create a playlist for a multi-song seduction, starting slow and working up to serious grinding on his lap.
But to start, pick one song and know that you have three to five minutes to give it your all.
From far away, make eye contact with him and slowly start moving into your dance. Then peel away one item of clothing at a time – or leave it all on! You can even combine striptease and lap dancing.
If it makes you feel more confident, leave all your clothes on and leave the undressing for later. Or strip down just to your lingerie. This is your expression, so do what makes you feel best.
As you move, slowly approach him and then back away. Then move around behind him, lightly stroking his hair and shoulders. Let him feel your breasts and hair graze the nape of his neck.
Then circle back around. Your goal is to tease him as much as possible, making him ache to touch you. If he tries to reach out and touch you, playfully slap his hand around and firmly say “No touching!” Then dance just inches away from him. The denial will make him all the hotter.
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