7. Keep it simple.
Once you have built up anticipation, start dancing closer to him. When you feel ready, let the climax of the lap dance begin. Turn so you are facing away from him and slowly let your hips sink closer and closer to his lap.
Whether he gets fully erect or not, remember that an erection is NOT a full measure of his arousal. So don’t worry about how hard he is.
Here are four simple moves for once you are dancing in his lap:
- Start by swaying your hips left and right. This simple move is surprisingly powerful. Add a little dip by bending your knees as you sway.
- Lower your hips so they are just barely above his pants and then move your hips in circles in time with the music.
- Try a pelvic tilt by thrusting your hips forward and back. Give your hips an extra push as you move back to make your booty bounce in a delicious way!
- The fourth move you can try is a simple bounce squat. Position yourself squarely above his lap and then squat quickly up and down, bouncing on his lap without ever making full contact.
This move is a huge tease and turn-on. Play with speed; start with slow squats and then bring up the tempo until you are bouncing in the air, just above him.
Glance over your shoulder once in a while and make eye contact. He’ll want to both look in your eyes and at your beautiful body—the desire to do both will be a delightful form of erotic tease!
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