2. You know where you each stand on important issues like children.
As in, whether you’d each like to have them. Also falling under this important-issues umbrella: where you’d like to settle down, how you both feel about marriage, whether you’re open to couple’s therapy when things get rough, what constitutes cheating, etc.
This isn’t a go-ahead to bombard someone promising with a zillion super-serious questions. These topics usually arise naturally, so avoiding them like the plague is a giveaway you might not be in the most grown-up relationship.
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