5 Signs your relationship is seriously dysfunctional and screwed-up – See this now!

5. You physically or mentally abuse your partner.

Finally, a married couple seems to have everything going for them. They’re upper-middle class, live in a beautiful home, attend all the important social functions, and seem very happy together. However, there’s a secret in their marriage: He’s physically rough with her and coerces her to engage in degrading sexual acts by telling her these are his fantasies. She gives him what he wants by doing as he requests.

If the person accommodating still gets what he or she wants from the relationship, then it’s healthy accommodation. However, if the person doing the accommodating is angry, resentful and demoralized, the behavior is moving into the dysfunctional category. 

When the accommodating person in the relationship is no longer getting enough positive from the relationship to balance out the negative, then the line has been crossed into dysfunction. No one can make that determination for the person, other than the person himself.

If you’re in a relationship and find yourself having more pain than happiness, you’re likely in the dysfunction area. That’s not to say it’s not possible for you to move back to a healthy accommodation place. Just know that when the pain outweighs the happiness, it’s time for some serious reflection.

–Yourtango

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