5. You post all of your arguments on social media.
Posting the amazing things you do with your SO on social media is a good thing. But, not everything on social media should to be posted, especially if that includes all your “I hate yous” and “We’re throughs.” If you post them and get feedback like, “Oh, you did a great thing by breaking up with him,” and you get back together after a day or two, then you’re being immature.
It will also make you look stupid and pathetic if you post screenshots of your SO and his cheating with people’s names included on it to embarrass him or her. Never compromise your self-respect for vengeance and validations.
People may comment with, “I’m sorry you broke up,” or “You’ll get over it soon. You’re a beautiful woman,” but you still won’t really know what’s in the back of their minds.
Truthfully, what’s behind those comments are laughters of distress. Your situation for the audience appears to be downright comical, and you become pathetic and desperate for that.
Arguments between couples are meant to be fixed by the couples themselves, not by the opinions of your followers online. It should always be kept private for the sake of privacy and respect of both parties.
Although you shouldn’t care what other people think, don’t give them reasons judge you. Judgments are based on the things you give them.
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