10. You over-value certainty or fail to embrace change.
There is only one constant in life. Change is inevitable. The old joke is that women marry men thinking they’ll change him. Men marry women thinking they’ll never change. Somehow, they both end up being wrong. The truth of the matter is that over the course of a lifetime, you will learn things, make new distinctions and further clarify your values and beliefs.
You can either grow apart slowly over time or you can honor one another’s journey. Find the common ground and do your best to expand it whenever possible. No one says you and your partner have to be of one mind on every possible issue. But you can be of one heart if you simply love them for who they are and who they are on the way to becoming.
Everyone is bound to change over time, but no one wants to be changed or feel pressured to conform. If you don’t want it done to you, don’t do it to your partner.
Source: Yourtango
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