Mind games the most insecure men play – Bonus: How to put a stop to them all. So you’re wondering if he’s a keeper? That is, until the evening he’s a no-show for dinner, doesn’t mention forgetting your date when he calls, and then says it’s all your fault when you bring it up.
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You hang up (or stop texting) dumbfounded.
The next time something similar happens, you start to doubt yourself, not the relationship.
You wonder what you’re doing wrong, and the next thing you know you’re crying into your pillow and believing you’re not good enough.
STOP the madness!
The game of Life and Love is waaaay too short to spend time on someone that doesn’t value you.
I tell my clients to think twice before teaming up in ANY kind of relationship that has a mix of these 3 ingredients:
1. Blame.
Words CAN hurt you as much as the proverbial stick and stone, especially if these words are frequent and yet unpredictable. People point the finger to get the upper hand, much like they’d keep a poker face in a card game.
Blaming and projection may be largely subconscious, but that makes them even more dangerous to a relationship.
Blamers lack self-esteem, yet they don’t want to admit it, so they need to find fault with you instead of looking at themselves. Chronic words of blame start a game that will only produce two losers, even though the person blaming the other thinks they’ll come out the victor.
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