Why most women fall for jerks – Life is full of (unpleasant) surprises when it comes to men. Having sex with a jerk is discouraging. It can ruin your faith in men. A guy can start out charming and come on strong, but just as quickly turn into a jerk and ghost you. So, then, you find yourself asking, “Why did I sleep with him?”
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Before you throw in the towel and give up men altogether, here are 3 reasons you had sex with a jerk:
1. You didn’t really know him.
Forgive me for stating the obvious, but you didn’t take the time to get to know him, despite the initial attraction. People we don’t know seem exciting and mysterious because it allows us to project our ideal fantasy on them. Time makes people real; without it, we’re left with a mirage.
If you feel that a guy is coming on too fast, there’s a reason. He’s in a hurry because you’re about to experience a hit and run. Men who are serious about you are not in a hurry to have sex with you. They will take the time to get to know you first.
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