Telling your partner “I love you,” even as you’re fighting with them, can help them realize that tough conversations are okay to have with you.
Saying “I love you” in a fight keeps the argument grounded in what’s real: the two of you.
Fighting is sometimes necessary in order to achieve greater intimacy.
You know how you can fight like cats and dogs with your siblings, and then be hugging and loving on them a minute later?
That comes from the intimacy and love of being raised together.
You know that your brothers and sisters will always love you, so you feel safe to fight with them.
Feeling free enough and safe enough to let down your guard, show the uglier parts of your personality, and have a stupid fight with your partner means almost MORE than just saying the words “I love you.”
When you can fight with them, make up, and move forward, you’re transforming the words “I love you” into action.
And that’s where the deepest love comes from.
Source: Yourtango
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