11. He always blames someone else.
Accusatory people constantly deflect their own feelings of guilt onto others. They never listen to reason, and they jump to conclusions. They’re very unpleasant to be around, because they’re always causing drama with their unfounded accusations and blaming.
- How this relationship affects you: If you’re not attuned to accusers’ games, you may play right into their hands. If that’s the case, you’ll accept their blame and feel guilty and bad about yourself. If you have caught on, though, you’ll understand that you’re not at fault. And your reaction will be anger, hurt, or confusion. You might engage in blaming wars, where you both hurl accusations at each other in an unending battle.
- How to handle this: This person is always looking for a fight, so virtually anything you say will be put into the blender of his or her mind and turned into something that’s completely different from what you’ve said. This person is usually out of touch with reality and only listens to his or her own ego’s twisted logic. Therefore, handle the situation directly but also realize the futility of argument.
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