18. He’s a name-caller.
Name-callers are verbally abusive, and frequently pepper their conversation with profanities. Sometimes they pretend that they’re doing this as a joke and insist that people who get offended don’t have a sense of humor. “I was just kidding!” they’ll say defensively. Other times name-callers hurl these insults and epithets with the energy of anger behind their words.
- How this relationship affects you: Name-calling can hurt even more deeply than physical abuse, especially for someone who has a sensitive, trusting, open heart. The wounds from verbal abuse can last a lifetime and result in low self-esteem or addictions, which are used to cover emotional pain.
- How to handle this: Verbal abuse is never okay in any circumstance. If the person calls you a name one time during a heated argument and then sincerely apologizes and doesn’t repeat the behavior, this relationship may heal. However, if the verbally abusive behavior continues, you need to seek help and support from a trusted person, counselor, or support group. The sooner you receive help and support, the greater your likelihood of coming through this experience strong and healthy.
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