21. She talks smack behind everyone’s back.
A gossiper talks trash about everyone, and perhaps you have participated in that gossip with this person in the past. But then you discover that this “friend” is also gossiping about you behind your back.
- How this relationship affects you: You’re surprised or even shocked that this person, who complains about everyone, is now complaining about you. You believed that you two were a united team who mutually found fault with others. You’re left with feelings of disbelief and betrayal, and wonder how your judgment could be so off as to trust him or her.
- How to handle this: As with all other relationship issues, assertive honesty is healthy for you, although it may or may not change the other person. Someone who gossips is usually addicted to the drama it brings. No more handing out juicy bits of information about your life. This means that you’ll have to be guarded around the person, which will ultimately distance you from him or her.
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