4- Talk about what works and doesn’t
Go over what worked well and conversely what didn’t, soon after you’ve finished. It’s a great time to talk as the oxytocin is flowing and you’re both feeling relaxed and chatty. This is the time when your woman will be feeling on top of the world and will most likely be pretty damn honest with you (a good thing).
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“I always encourage couples to learn to talk about their sex lives. Partly because it helps them to extend the fun — if you had a really good session and you talk about it afterwards. But also because it helps cement what worked well,” says Hellyer. “You might ask her, ‘How did you like it when I was talking to you like that — you seemed to respond well. Would you like me to ramp it up or was it where you felt comfortable?’ Make sure you use really positive language as well. ‘I really loved the way you responded when I did that… I loved the way you touched me there and how did you feel about such and such?’ She’s feeling relaxed and it’s just a really good time to touch base about what is real and authentic to her sexually.”
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