Women and their ways with chivalry
Strangely, women can be really weird at times. And it’s quite hard to please them when we just don’t know whether they’re looking for a guy with a chivalrous streak in them or not. We have those damsels-in-distress that just can’t imagine their life without a chivalrous man. And they are usually the ones that get pissed off if you don’t wipe their seat before they park their backsides, or get totally upset and act aloof if you don’t pull a chair back for them or hold the door open.
Now I love this woman. As demanding as she seems, she would acknowledge your gesture, or at least know deep inside that you care (hopefully?). If she doesn’t seem to care, then just cut down your chivalrous moves. Blame your loss of chivalry on her, which is the real truth anyways, because she didn’t give a damn when you were being nice, so why care.
On the other hand, we have the I’m-an-effing-feminist woman. She’s usually the one who would walk right up ahead of you at a restaurant and open the door herself while you try catching up, or the one who just can’t digest the fact that you’re stepping aside so she can enter the elevator first.
She’d just assume that you want to check her ass as she walks ahead! She’s also the one who gives you a weird stare when you hold the door open for her. Of course, she thinks you think that she’s just too weak to open the door herself!
So how the hell do you figure out how to be chivalrous and show that you respect a woman? Well, it’s pretty simple really. Just be really nice to her however she behaves. Just like how we have a streak of chivalry in us, women too have a streak of I-want-to-be-pampered in them. So irrespective of whether she thinks you’re checking her ass or not, be courteous. So what if you’re checking her ass, let her know it’s hot! But if she’s the damsel-who-loves-chivalry, do be a lot more chivalrous than you’ve ever been. She’ll love you for it, and you’ll feel really good about it.
Discussion about this post