Fear of being heartbroken
Women who have the ”I aint love material’ issue are not just love phobic but hyper-petrified. Susan Mark (name changed on request), who is aware of her push-the-man-away skills says, “I know I always shun the idea of love from a man who’s attracted to me, not because I’m not smitten by him. I just can’t deal with heartbreak. I can’t go through the whole high expectations, not-meeting-expectations, sobbing, crying and more phases. I rather be emotionally numb than be emotionally active for someone till he sedates me off it but yet I feel the pain.” ALSO: Here are things women hate sex – Guys, know this now!
Chase me till I’m unavailable:
It is true, men love the chase, it gives them a kick. And women are conscious about this feature in men. So, since they know being unavailable gets them all the attention, why not extend the chase by keeping him at safe distance. Saying no may be a backup plan. Some women love standby’s. Other women just feel, if they fall for the drill of the chase, it might get different later. So they rather stay away.
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