5. Your body is like a foreign language — and he needs you to help him learn it
If you were asked to fly an airplane, would you know what to do? Which lever would you push? What do all the buttons mean? And yet, a lot of women expect their men to know how to interact with their body and “give” them the experience they’re hoping for. By having this expectation, women are essentially setting their partner up for failure and feelings of inadequacy.
Men tell me all the time their greatest desire is to please their partner and to know she’s getting as much out of their intimate life as he is. To do that, he actually needs you to tell him what you like, don’t like, and want more of. Of course there are books he could read and classes he could take, but there isn’t a class out there detailing the specifics of your unique body, needs and wants. So, give the guy a little help, don’t expect him to read your mind, and just tell him. I know it seems simplistic, but it’s amazing how far a little communication will go. You’ll both be glad you did.
In conclusion, recognize you’re married to an evolved human man and not some raging S-E”X-x-fiend
While there are a few men out there who fit that description, they are usually the exception and not the rule. And those are the men who aren’t generally looking for long-term relationships anyway. The man you’ve chosen is a complex man with feelings and hopes just like yours and is anxious to do what he can to improve your relationship.
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