5. Your partner intentionally meant to hurt you.
Most relationship mistakes made by the other person are about them — not a malicious attempt to hurt you. The truth is that most people will go out of their way to avoid hurting the other person (even though they may fail miserably). Even cheating says more about the person who cheated than their partner.
In the case of benign screw-ups, it’s more likely that you have a problem with them being clueless rather than evil.
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