8. You lost polarity and the attraction has totally fizzled out .
I could give you a whole science lesson on magnetic attraction or polarity but let me just bottom-line it for you: Two energies which are polar opposites create attraction and stick together effortlessly. Two energies that are the same repel one another.
In this case, the energies to which I refer are masculine and feminine. It’s not about gender — it’s about energy. You could disagree with me if you want to but a magnet still sticks whether you understand it, agree with it or like it.
Masculine energy is characterized by many attributes including things like strength, steadiness, logic and a desire to protect. Feminine energy is characterized by traits like flow, flexibility, emotion and a desire to nurture. When partners are living in their core energy, they attract naturally.
But under pressure, they lose their way and take on opposite attributes. When polarity is gone, masculine partners are seen as weak, indecisive, emotional and ineffective. By the same token, feminine partners slip into behaviors that are seen as hardened, inflexible, emotionless and uncaring.
In other words, both partners find one another equally repulsive. The solution is two people finding the strength and resolve to recapture what they once had, protect it and nurture it. Build it back to where it’s stronger than ever and to withstand whatever comes its way.
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