Ways to ensure your partner NEVER cheats on you – Stop the cheating before it happens. As a marriage and family counselor, I am always dealing with issues of sexuality, infidelity, and betrayal as well as intimacy, honesty, courage, and integrity.
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A rush of public and celebrity scandals — from Tiger Woods to David Letterman, from Sen. John Ensign to Gov. Mark Sanford, to the suspected shenanigans of Jon Gosselin of reality TV’s “Jon and Kate Plus 8” — might make it seem that sexual infidelity is sweeping the land.
Many of my clients want to know how to prevent an affair. Here’s what I tell them.
1. Renew your vows every 7 years.
There’s a joke I heard that could even be true. A man and a woman have been married for 57 years and their friends and family are throwing a party for them to celebrate so many years of love.
After the party the woman says to the man, “It was a wonderful gathering and I’m so glad all our family and friends could get together to celebrate with us. But I have a question that has been bothering me for years. Why don’t you ever tell me you love me?”
The man looks at his wife of 57 years with surprise. “Why, I did tell you I loved you the day we got married. If I should change my mind, I’ll let you know.”
Too many people assume their relationship will just coast along once it gets started. Well, it won’t.
My wife and I have been married 31 years. It is the third marriage for both of us. Every 7 years, we renew our vows and recommit to our marriage. And we tell each other often, “I love you.”
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