7. Find a new guy
I don’t usually recommend a rebound, but if this guy is ignoring you, find a guy that won’t. And once you do it will be easier than ever to ignore the first guy; this may likely get him running back to you.
When you get overly upset, you might start to check all his social media to see if he is active, but still ignoring you. That is not healthy for your self-esteem, so try to calm down. Him ignoring you is his loss, not yours.
8. Work through your feelings another way
When a guy ignores me, I get so frustrated. Is he busy or is he actually ignoring me? And if so, why? All I want to do is vent to a friend or give him a piece of my mind.
But, unfortunately, that is what puts you in the crazy girl zone. So instead, release your confusion and frustration in a healthy manner. Go for a run, paint, draw, write, sing. Do whatever it is that lets you release your feelings in a calm way.
9. Don’t overreact
Once again, try not to overreact. You are totally entitled to be annoyed and your feelings are completely valid, but freaking out will only make you even more worked up. You’ll think about him more, and it will be even harder to ignore him.
10. Delete his number
If all else fails, delete your conversation and delete his number. Willpower tends to go out the window in situations like this, so if you can’t help yourself force yourself to ignore him.
11. Focus on yourself
Instead of focusing on him and what he is doing, or rather, not doing, focus on you. Relax, have a spa night, treat yourself to some chocolate. You deserve some self-love.
12. Go out
Go out with the girls and have a great time. Hanging out with your closest friends will not only keep you busy and perk up your spirits, but who knows what can happen on a fun night out. You may even meet a guy who would never ignore you. Or just keep it a girls night.
Knowing how to ignore a guy that ignores you takes a lot of self-control. When the heart is involved, a lot of that goes out the window. But with some effort, you’ll start to forget the guy and move on in no time.
By Samantha Ann, Lovepanky
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