Changes you MUST make to keep the love in your marriage – Start TODAY. Remember falling in love with your partner? Think back to the magic of your head-over-heels relationship, when the feelings of connectionand sexual chemistry were off the charts.
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Then something happened …
Maybe you got married and grew busy with children and a stressful career. You got distracted from the most important thing in your world: your partner. Or was it your partner who stopped focusing on you?
Let’s be fair about it.
People don’t intend to make other things more important than their partner. It just happens.
Nobody wakes up one day and says to themselves, “Today’s the day I’m going to ruin the happiness and intimacy in my marriage.” That’s not how it happens.
It simply happens like this …
We forget to value our partners in our daily living.
We often forget why we chose them, and why we love them.
We forget the ideas about the shared life of togetherness we wanted to create with them.
We forget to make them the priority they were early on in the relationship.
Instead we become self-focused.
I’m busy …
I don’t have time …
I’m stressed …
I’ve got responsibilities …
I’m tired…
When your relationship is struggling and you feel neglected and unappreciated, the bitter theme that surfaces is this: “Can’t you love me more than this?”
We point the finger of blame at what our partners aren’t doing for us.
We get caught up in how they aren’t meeting our needs.
We think about everything that’s missing.
We feel unappreciated, misunderstood, and taken for granted.
That’s when the feelings of disconnect kick in — and intimacy fades.
Here are three things you can do to change that starting today:
1. Make your partner and your relationship the most important priorities in your life.
Your partner — boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife — will appreciate it, and as a result, your relationship will stabilize.
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