3. “I love it when you [insert action].”
This is one that can benefit you as much as him. Men are the traditional initiators, and even if your man isn’t the one to make the first move, chances are he sometimes feels like he should. If you don’t tell him what you like, he’s just flying blind. In fact, if you haven’t complimented him he might even think you don’t like what he’s doing. And of course, the more you tell him you love it when he scratches your lower back, or runs your fingers along your chest, the more he’ll do it.