Get In The Zone
You may have heard of the distraction technique before, or even tried it yourself by trying to think of anything but sex to try and decrease your arousal. Well this method is the opposite to that and it work a lot better. It’s all about getting in the zone
Here’s what you do – As sex begins you should start really zoning into everything you are feeling, seeing hearing and touching. Make sure you are caressing her all over and really focus in on the way her body feels as you move your hands around. Notice the way the sheets feel on your skin, the way her hair feels as it brushes your face… I’m talking about everything here.
What this will do if dome correctly is two very important things. Firstly it will stop you only thinking about the sensation on your penis which will reduce some of the perceived hypersensitivity there, and secondly it will make sure your mind is keyed in and relaxed. The worst thing you can do during sex is to start thinking about what will happen if you can’t last in bed so this will help prevent the chances of that.
You partner will also notice how tuned in you are and she will absolutely love it