2. He’ll talk to you about other girls.
In new relationships it’s normal for you both to unpack your exes. It’s our histories, however tumultuous, that make us who we are and sharing that is natural. But if he talks about his ex and his struggles to get over her, he isn’t over her.
If he spots a cute chick and points her out to you, he’s long ago relegated you to buddy material. I also think that how a man talks to a woman about other women is proof of his intentions.
If I’m dating a guy and he speaks in a catty way about other women, he’s not trying to impress me, he’s already lumped me into with one of the sexist bros he hangs with.
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