2. Invite participation.
Sexting, like actual sex, shouldn’t be a one-way street. Instead, invite participation. You can do this in several ways. Try hypothetical situations such as, “If I were to walk into your office right now wearing nothing but my matching red panties and bra, what would you do?” When he responds, you can add another hypothetical to the mix, i.e. “What if I were also wearing four-inch heels?” or “What if I secretly had a fire pole installed the night before?”
Another way to do it is to tell him what you’re going to do to him, and then ask “What do you want to do to me?” Go back and forth this way, both of you getting more bold with each text. Beware, though: this is extremely NSFW.
Remember, sexting is all about anticipating, so build it up by asking him questions that get him thinking about you.
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