2. You don’t have to do EVERYTHING together.
When you start your first relationship, it feels like you need to give it your all, your everything, but here’s the thing — you still have a lot more life outside of that one person. Spread the wealth a little. Hang out with your friends.
Don’t abandon the rest of your life just because this one girl is willing to make out with you.
3. Admit what you don’t know.
Never kissed someone before? Admit it. Don’t know how to “take things further”? Admit it. Not sure if you should touch her boob? Admit it, and just ask.
Being silent and trying to fake your way through things doesn’t help ANYONE, particularly you. And, if she can’t handle you admitting things, you probably weren’t meant to be in the first place.
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