3. Erect boundaries… and make him fall in love again.
So what does this mean for you? Lots of things.
First, it’s a hopeful lesson that everything can be turned around. I wouldn’t normally coach my clients to move in with their boyfriends.
Instead, I often advise women that they should keep dating different men until they have the commitment they want from the man they want. But women often cringe at the idea of continuing to date other men.
When my then boyfriend told me he wasn’t sure if he wanted to marry me, I didn’t go and line up a bunch of dates. But what I did do is “date myself”. I made plans by myself to do things that pleased me. And, in doing that, I reminded him of the woman he fell in love with.
I shook him up so that he saw that his life was much better with me in it than it was without me. It scared him a little — by reminding him how great I was, it woke him up to the fact that other men might rush in to claim me before he did.
When a man realizes what he has with you — and that he could lose it — he’ll feel naturally motivated to make a lifelong commitment to you.
Source: Yourtango
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