9. Realize that even if someone has hurt you, that need not take away your personal happiness.
Remember, you are in charge of your attitude and response. You can get over it and go on.
If the hurt was unintentional, ask yourself, “Why am I magnifying it by holding on to it?” If the hurt was intentional and forgiven, ask yourself, “If the person has asked for my forgiveness and moved on, why am I still stuck in the pain?” If the hurt was intentional and unforgiven, tell yourself, “I choose to forgive the pain the person caused me so I can move past it.”
Then reassert yourself and determine to be happy. That’s a choice you should reserve for yourself.
Source: Yourtango
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