12. Expecting Him To Pay
When you go out on a date, the man paying seems to be expected and traditional, but not everyone is like that these days. In fact, more and more people are starting to split the bill during dates, so don’t just expect the man to pay just because he is the man. This is probably one of those things that should be sorted out before the date, but you should still never go onto a date and expect the guy to pay for everything because for the men who do not believe in paying for everything, it drives them crazy, and they cannot stand it. Instead, always bring your own money with you just in case and be polite, ask him if he would like you to contribute to the bill, or at the very least offer to leave the tip. Never get mad at a guy who doesn’t pay for everything because that is just rude. Women should abandon these old fashioned ideals.
11. Being Too Shy
This is a tough one, because many girls are naturally shy. However, even shy girls should make an effort to keep the conversation going and avoiding awkward lulls in the conversation. The first date tends to be all about getting to know each other and talking to one another to get a feel for each others personalities, so if you are a very shy girl and you don’t really say anything during your date or you only give one word answers, then that can really drive a man crazy because he is not being given that chance to really get to know you. This can also be mistaken by the man as you not being that into him. That being said, communication is key and you will never meet someone that you click with if you don’t ever talk to them. It really helps to open up from time to time no matter how scary that might seem. If you feel nervous, tell you date so he doesn’t just think you’re rude.
10. Trying To Sound Cute
Nothing drives a man more crazy than when a woman talks to him using her cutesy little baby voice. It is OK to try to sound like a baby when you are talking to a baby, but if you are on a first date it is time to put on your big girl pants and talk like an adult. Sure, you might think that it sounds cute, but trust me when I say that all it does is drive him crazy and if he cannot stand the sound of your voice then he probably won’t be calling you back for another date. In fact, when asked, men said that they are more attracted to women when they have a more mature sounding voice as to when they have high-pitched cute little voices because those are just annoying. So save the baby talk for actual babies and just try to talk in your normal voice on your date because there is nothing cute about it.
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