Tease her with your hands
The first step is to make her comfortable, and now we warm her up. As you’re talking to her, try touching her. You could hold her pinky and slowly run your fingers along her fingers, or you could use your index finger and run it along her arm or over her jeans. Don’t linger and don’t make it seem like a big deal. And while you’re doing this, don’t stop talking. You don’t want all the focus on the touching. You have to make her feel comfortable with your touch.