2. Understand that it’s not just sex — it’s a connection on a deeper level.
There is an absolutely massive difference between learning how to make love to a man and just “knockin’ boots”.
Making love is about getting closer to your man and connecting with him, both physically and mentally. But just hooking up with a guy for the sake of it is completely different. Hooking up is more about lust and just getting off.
When you are making love with someone, you can go fast or slow, but you will always be paying attention to them. In many ways making love to a guy is a way to show him just how much you care about him. While it’s obviously a bonus if you get off, you are going to be just as focused with making sure that he gets off too.
So if you really want to learn how to make love to a guy and connect with him, don’t think so much about getting off as quickly as possible. Think more along the lines of slow, passionate grinding, caressing and embracing. But making love is not just about intercourse. There are a lot of other “loving” things that you can do to your man like massaging him, kissing him and even going down on him.