3. Your friend who hates your significant other
She has spent time with your husband and he is extra nice to her, but she won’t budge. Anytime you say one bad thing he does, she jumps straight into ‘I told you so,’ and anytime you say the great things he does, she rolls her eyes and tells you to be suspicious of his behaviour. Heck, even during your bridal shower, she gave you a speech on how it’s never too late to back out and how fast she can get you a divorce lawyer when you come to your senses. Any negative person might bring you down with their infectious bitterness. Also, she might make stab a knife into your husband’s mood with her eye rolls and unenthusiastic sarcastic cheering when you guys kiss. Let her stay at home and follow the wedding via twitter or something.
4. Your close guy/girl friend who your groom/bride doesn’t like
Like it or not, men usually know what’s up. Unless your husband is pathologically jealous, if he points out that he doesn’t feel comfortable with your best guy friend at the wedding, you should probably believe him. Your friend may be like a brother to you and you never want to be romantically involved but you can never know what the friend is thinking. If your friend was there before your husband, he probably knows you more and may think he is a better fit and as wedding day madness sets in, you might think so too and look your husband dead in the eye and say, ‘I take thee *your best guy friend*’ and it all goes downhill from there. By all means, invite him to the reception to boogie down with you but for the sake of peace between you and your husband, he can skip the ceremony.
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