5. Your relation who refuses to give their blessing
Unless this person is your mother or father, do not invite them to any part of the wedding. If it’s your parents, invite them if you must but be sure you don’t let them kill your vibe. Any relation who is negative and basically just waiting for the marriage to fail, is poison at your ceremony. They will be shooting you daggers and might cause a scene over any little thing. When they say clap, they may not clap. When they say stand up, they may sit in defiance. When someone is giving a toast to the couple and everyone’s hands are stretched forth with a wine glass, they may fold their arms stubbornly or worse sip on the wine before the toast. Some may even go as far as push down your wedding cake by ‘accident’. Just no! Don’t invite them. Let them stay at home and keep waiting for your marriage to fail.
6. Any girl (single or married) who has slept with your man
Your acrobatics in bed may have gotten your man hooked and that’s why you have won ring but anyone who has slept with him can stay at home an reminisce on the good old days with him. Their presence there is a reminder of all he has done in his past, more accurately, who he has done in his past. And seeing them may even spark residual feelings in him and you know men get more wedding jitters so don’t give your man encouragement to act on them. However, if he had a child before you, it’s courtesy to invite her and the baby they have. It’s courtesy but it’s not a law.
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