Signs the guy you’re dating will break your heart – Don’t ignore these. Is your partner someone who gives you mixed signals when it comes to commitment? Maybe you feel it’s time to become exclusive, or maybe you’ve been together for awhile and you’re ready to move your relationship to the next level.
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But … your partner doesn’t seem to be jumping at the opportunity to be your “one and only”. In fact, the closer you become, the more he or she seems to pull away.
As humans, we are all wired to attach and connect with others.
However, we all have different styles and levels of comfort in our attachments with others. Our attachment styles are basically formed in the first few years of life, and set the foundation for how we will connect with others in our adult lives.
These styles usually don’t change much. This means that if someone has spent their whole lives fearing closeness, it’s unlikely that they will suddenly dive head first into anything that would feel intimate, no matter how amazing you might be.
If you are someone who craves the intimacy of a relationship, you are likely not going to feel comfortable with someone who avoids the very things you need… closeness and intimacy.What is important is to know your own style, and what kind of style you need in a relationship.
It’s helpful to not take things personal, but instead to develop an awareness and acceptance of the fact that we all have differing needs with attachment. These needs can sometimes be tricky to change because they are such a fundamental part of us.
If you are the kind of person who likes closeness, intimacy, and committed relationships, it’s good to know how to identify partners who have a tendency to be uncomfortable with commitment. Knowing what you need and how to find it can prevent a lot of future heartbreak.
So, how do you tell if someone has a fear of commitment?
1. They avoid discussions about any type of commitment, such as becoming “exclusive”, moving in together, or marriage.
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