6. You’re not on the same page before consummating your relationship.
Whether it’s for one night of fun or for a week of vacation while you’re in Cabo, have an understanding between the two of you that’s exactly what it is going in.
You may want to make a commitment that you don’t want to consummate the relationship until you’re ready to be socially and sexually monogamous, so you’re able to see each other a couple of times a week and are heading towards a long-term relationship or marriage.
Whatever the agreement is, let it be known so that neither of you feel sucker-punched when the other person says, “I never said that’s what I wanted.”
The neuro-chemical tidal wave that comes with having sexual intercourse is too powerful to not talk ahead of time about your individual expectations. Have the discussion in the sober, light of day.
After reading these, perhaps you may find one or more ideas here that you have been doing or not doing. Or maybe you won’t realize until you go on a few more first dates that you are guilty of cutting off men or talking about your work, because you think that what you do for work is fascinating.
That’s ok. Until now, you didn’t know.
Now you do know. What’s important is what are you going to do next?
Here you have in your back pocket a guideline for future first dates. Be appreciative. Listen. Don’t argue unnecessarily. Really, some of these are just common courtesy, no? We seem to have lost that along the way.
Source: Yourtango
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