Know he genuinely likes you – They’re a rare breed but they’re not extinct. Genuine. A word seemingly reserved in today’s society for objects or artifacts. This is a “genuine” piece. A “genuine” collection. A “genuine” whatever-the-hell. What you do not often hear, though, is how a person is genuine. I read (and listen to) stories on nearly a daily basis that describe the behavior of human beings in ways that I can’t even fathom. The absolute opposite end of the spectrum that our community promotes. But unfortunately, this is the world we live in.
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So then, as a man, I have decided to give a peek into our psyche. For the greater good, of course. When are we serious about a woman? When are we genuine? And when are we just playing games?
The following are 15 real signs to look for when you are dating someone. Does he fit the bill or is he just playing you?
1. He will invite you on a proper date.
None of this “Hey, I’m out with some friends, wanna meet up?” before he gets to know you nonsense. If a man wants to get to know you, he will put in the time and the effort to spend time one-on-one with you, and see what you are all about. If he’s always trying to fit you into his pre-existing plans and you feel like the text he sent could have gone to 10 other girls at the same time, he’s just not that into you.
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