De-emphasizing intercourse would be a great step toward making sex more satisfying, less stressful, and simply easier for a huge number of people.
Encouraging people to do what they like during erotic activity, rather than doing sex “the right way” would reduce everyone’s anxiety and even promote communication.
“What do you like?” “How does this feel?” “Would you like more of this?” “Want it a little different?”
Those are the sexiest words on earth.
“I want to do foreplay right so we can succeed at sex” never put anyone in the mood, never made anyone relax, never made anyone feel playful or confident.
Lovers should not be technicians — in fact, sex is where we can go to get away from the need to do things “right” that’s so common in the rest of our lives.
Our Expert Dr. Marty Klein has just published his seventh book, ‘His Porn, Her Pain: Confronting America’s PornPanic With Honest Talk About Sex.’ In honor of the event, we’ll be running several excerpts, and a series of his articles about Pornography in Real Life. Subjects will include couples in conflict about porn, what to do if you’re over-involved with porn, and the question of whether consuming porn leads to anti-social behavior. For more information, visit HisPornHerPain.com.
Source: Yourtango
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