9. Be a lifelong learner.
He’s open to and seeks continued growth. He’s curious, always reading, learning, and/or taking classes online or offline. He’s interested in many things, and that makes him more interesting.
10. He’s confident and humble.
Confidence is usually the number one quality people are seeking in a partner. Someone who’s confident is sexy. But what is confidence? It’s about knowing your values and standards for how you want to be treated. It’s about liking yourself and who you’ve become at this stage in your life. And it’s about walking away from the things and people in your life that drain you.
Confidence is attractive, arrogance is not. So be confident AND humble. Know your worth, but don’t brag about your accomplishments. Don’t dominate the conversation with me, me, me! The balance of confidence with a healthy dose of humility—now that’s super sexy!
I can imagine that many men are reading this and thinking, “That’s a ridiculous list. There are no men who have all ten of those traits. These women are dreaming. Get real!” Or, “And what about the women who want a man like this? Come on, do they have these traits, too?”
While a man might not have every single trait on this list, there really are men who have most if not all of these qualities. And they’re willing to work on themselves if they don’t.
For example, if he’s not a great communicator, he’s willing to work on that skill. If he’s not great at managing his money, he’s willing to seek help.
And yes, the women who want men with these qualities are seeking that man, because they have these qualities. They work hard to continuously improve themselves. They are living a life of integrity and inspiration, and they want to be with men who inspire them, too.
And no, women don’t expect perfection. There is no such thing. We all have flaws. That’s what makes us human and vulnerable and helps us get closer to one another.
By the way, notice that I did not list that a man must be six feet tall, be ripped, have a full head of hair, and be brilliant, rich, or witty. Those features and qualities mean nothing without integrity, honesty, shared values, and open communication. If you can also admit your shortcomings and you’re willing to accept responsibility for working on them, a wonderful woman will find you irresistible.
Source: Yourtango
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