3. Understand that most commitments are really just temporary.
Temporary can even just be 20 years. When you realize this you can dilute your fear of the idea of commitment right away and focus on what you want.
Making clear and doable commitments for months rather than years is a great way to begin a new relationship.
Thus, sexual monogamy with a new partner for one month and then another month and then six months and then a year and then ultimately if you both agree for a lifetime is a great way to avoid your fear that may have nothing to do with your choice of partner.
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