7. He shows minimal effort.
If the man is putting in minimal effort, he thinks about you as only a friend with benefits.
Minimal effort looks different in different situations. It may be that you’re doing the bulk of initiating contact. It may be that he only calls you at the end of a night out with the guys. If you’re honest with yourself, you feel it.
You know you’re towards the bottom of his priority list. If he sees you as someone to have a relationship with, he will put in the effort to spend time with you and do things you enjoy. He will notice what pleases you and do little things like give you a card or flowers occasionally.
The bottom line is that you teach people how to treat you. If you don’t want to only be a friend with benefits, stop participating in the arrangement. Often, the same man will treat different women completely differently.
Each woman is treated the way that she feels worthy of being treated. Decide what you want in a relationship and stop settling for less than you want. It is great to have friends (and benefits), but if you seek a loving relationship and a strong bond with a partner, keep looking.
Source: Yourtango
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