4. It’s TOTALLY healthy to give yourself time
If you’re a woman, you know that existing in the world means feeling a world of pressure on your shoulders at all times.
We feel pressure to excel in our careers, pressure to excel within our family units, pressure to stay fit, all kinds of pressure!
The last thing you need to do is add pressure to your already pressure-filled life. You don’t need to make a decision about this right now, especially if you aren’t ready to make one. Make time a gift you give yourself.
And guys, there’s a lot of pressure from society to be a “good provider” and as soon as you move in together, that pressure is going to start, fair or not.
Take it easy on yourselves. Only decide to move in together when you’re truly ready for all this related baggage.
5. If the person you love in it for the long haul, they’ll be willing to work it all out with you, not cut and run.
They’re not going to leave you just because you say you aren’t ready to move in together. Could they feel hurt? Sure. But if you explain your feelings clearly, that hurt they’re feeling doesn’t mean they’re going to leave you.
If someone loves you enough to want to wake up next to you every morning, they can love you through this too.
Source; Yourtango
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