2. Your ‘props’ are sending the WRONG message.
A friend took your picture (that is an improvement over the selfie and shows that you have at least one friend). But, you are wearing camouflage and/or showing off a dead deer, fish, goose, duck, or some other variety of carcass.
What are you’re trying to say, “I can provide food”? Most of us get food from a grocery store, which is actually cheaper and less time-consuming than hunting. Unless the woman you seek also hunts and fishes, dead animals are not a good way to lure her in.
If you’re looking for a woman who will be your hunting and fishing partner, hunting and fishing pictures may work for you. It may be useful to keep in mind that if you’re limiting yourself to a woman who hunts and fishes, you have decreased the pool significantly. But that’s up to you.
You also include pictures of your dog— without you in it. Dogs are cute, but no one is planning to date your dog and if that is the most interesting first impression you can make, that’s a bad sign.
You have a picture of your truck? Great! If she needs to haul something, she knows she can call you. If you’re young enough that your parents probably helped pay for that truck, you just suggested you cannot take care of yourself. If you’re old enough to have bought your own vehicle, she probably expects you to have something decent to drive.
Then, you have pictures of your toys, which may include a Harley, four-wheeler, sports car, snowmobile, or boat. If these are not paid for, you are advertising you are a poor money manager, especially if a truck with a high payment is paired with any of those toys.
Most women enjoy being around someone who can hold up their end of an interesting conversation, not someone who just owns a lot of toys. Oh, and if that Harley does not have a nice touring pack, you’re also advertising that you care little about her comfort.
It’s fine to mention you enjoy any of the above activities, and if you did something particularly interesting while practicing one of your hobbies it is great to mention that. That will give her something to ask you about and start a conversation.
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