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You may be loving and caring.
And you may go out of your way often to please your lover and pamper them.
But what do you do when your indulgences are taken for granted and turn into expectations?
Whose fault is it when you’re being taken for granted?
Should you blame the person taking you for granted?
Or should you blame yourself?
When you indulge in romantic gestures all the time without caring about your lover’s reciprocation, or when you’re too sweet and nice to your lover or a friend all the time without ever letting them realize that you’re going way out of your way to do something nice for them, it’s pretty obvious that they’d take you for granted because they don’t realize the effort you’ve made for them!
Can you blame someone when they have no idea about the effort you’ve taken for them?
Of course, they may feel pampered or special the first few times. But once it starts to feel like routine, the indulgences turn into expectations.
And if you don’t behave the same way or don’t make the effort one day, your lover may even get annoyed with you!
The harder you try, the bigger their expectations. And before you know it, you don’t get anything in return, and yet, you’d be expected to go out of your way and do something special for them all the time.
And almost always, this is the point of no return when you’d start to feel like you’re being taken for granted in the relationship!
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