#4 Are you really as hot as you think you are?
This one is a low blow, but it’s better to face reality than build castles and mansions in the clouds. You may pursue or try to win the attention of the most attractive and charming person in the room. But are you really good enough to win their attention? Are you better than every single person around you who’s pursuing the same hottie? You may think you’re all that, but what are the odds that you’re the only one who thinks that way. It’s like that wannabe on Idol who thinks she’s gorgeous and ridiculously talented. Psst… are you that ridiculous person?
P.S. Don’t get your hopes down now. You may not be hot stuff now, but if you really want to, you can mould yourself to become the most attractive and charming person in any room if you’re ready to change for the better.