How Do You Find The G-spot?
First and foremost, the G-spot is easiest to locate when you are very aroused.
Why is arousal important? When the tissue is swollen it makes the area firmer than the rest of the surrounding vaginal wall. Now that you are very aroused, you can find the G-spot about 2 to 3 inches inside the upper vaginal wall. Some women find it easier to have someone else locate their G-spot.
To locate your G-spot, lay on your back and use personal lubricant on your index or middle finger. Insert your finger into the vagina as far as it will easily go and run your finger along the top wall of the vagina.
Feel for an area that feels different from the rest of the tissue. If you find that spot, make a “come hither” motion and curl your fingers upward so that your fingers are pressing toward your belly button.
Because of the G-spot’s tricky location, it might be easier to find it using special G-spot sex toys.
It’s important to note that for some women G-spot stimulation can take around 20 minutes. That’s a long time (and why a sex toy or G-spot vibrator would come in handy)! It’s equally important to note that some women require firm and constant pressure on their G-spot in order to be stimulated.