2. Stimulating your clitoris is key, and his size has nothing to do with making it happen.
Explore your body with no focus toward your goal of penetration initially. Just enjoy your body and what it can do, fairly independently, with a happy clit.
Take the time to explore your clit and find its points of sensitivity — that’s where he needs to stimulate when he goes down on you.
Play what I refer to as the “clock exercise,” wherein you open sesame and let him stimulate around your clit just like the hours on a clock to figure out what your hot spots are. Most women have hot spots around “10” and “2” as there are a lot of nerve bundles there.
You can also get out your toys and see if he likes being a voyeur while you go to town on some self-stimulation. A lot of guys love to see girls “jill off.” It’s a bit thrilling to them. Plus, why not warm up with a few clitoral orgasms?
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