4. He doesn’t project his insecurities.
Men have this almost surreal way of covering up all of the stuff that bugs them about themselves. Financial stress, wishing for more, fears, desires, sexual frustration — you name it, men are probably experiencing it. Yet, many guys bury everything. Because they feel like they have to. Women do, too, by the way. But that’s a different article.
Gentlemen, I’m here to tell you, by way of experience, by having walked across the prairie of broken glass that is this flagrant, resilient toxic waste dump called masculinity, that being a good man or a good husband has nothing at all to do with being a clammed-up self-loathing time bomb whose own soul is on fire with the need to communicate so many things that he mustn’t ever reveal, lest he look like a failure in the eyes of his partner. And his neighbors. And his mom. (Oh god, his MOM.)
By holding back from open communication with the person you’ve married, men end up doing three things.
- They become frustrated over time.
- They tell themselves a fable of their life rather than openly admitting the true memoir they are living.
- They ultimately fall apart in epic ways and blame everyone else but themselves.
Listen to her. And let her listen to you. Jeez, can’t you see it? You two could grow old together.
Damn. That would be so f*cking cool.
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